A couple days later Mandy called me after she had gone to Costco. She told me how weird it felt to be doing something that was so normal before....but how not normal it felt. She was feeling the same as me....how are all these people who I shop with often at Costco, going on with their lives? How is the world still living??
Yesterday I ran into Dylan's cancer buddy Cyndi at Walmart. We were both in the toy section and were lucky enough to see each other. She looked so cute!! She had a great wig on, covering her bald head, and a darling pair of glasses. I told her....no one would EVER know what you are going through right now. Then, the reminder came to me...we NEVER know what people are going through. We can assume that everyone around us are living perfect lives, void of any heartache. We can convince ourselves we have it worse than most everyone. We might also start to envy and feel jealous of others "carefree lives".
BUT the real truth is, like I said to Cyndi, we never know. I will never understand what people are going through just by looking at them. None of their trials will be shown to me just in passing. I have so much sympathy for those who are suffering. It is so important for me to be kind and patient, even to strangers. We are all fighting our own battles...
Chels, you make me cry everytime I read your words. You write your feelings so well. I love you and your family. Our thoughts are with you all. Alisha xoxo
ReplyDeleteI totally feel the same way when I am out at the store. I look at people so differently because we really do not know what others are facing. You put it perfectly!
ReplyDeleteThank you for this post... It is so true and I needed to be reminded of this. I hope you don't mind me following Dylan's story...
ReplyDeletei heard a little story/quote one time that went like this: if everyone gathered up all their problems and laid them out, we would look at ours verses everyone else and take our own pile back home! :) kinda the same thing. i keep you ALL in my prayers
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